Life is not a race. It never was.

Stop comparing yourself from others. 

We may be travelling the same sea, but we are not on the same boat. Physically, mentally, emotionally and financially, we are not. Your pace may not be as fast as them, but still, remember, you are aiming to reach that destination. They may reach it earlier than you, yet you will also be there on your own time. It may be earlier than others, or later than some. Still, you will reach it on time. You will.

So, stop looking for someone to share the same boat, rather, find someone who will travel with you no matter how different your vessels are.

This is not a race. It never was.